Friday, February 27, 2009

Loving something that lives...

I'll preface this blog by saying I just returned from my grandfather's funeral....Thus, I apologize for its morbidness.

I've been very fortunate in my life to have not had to experience death that often. Maybe it is because I have a small family. Maybe it is because my parents tried to shield me from it as a child. Whatever the reason is, it is very difficult (if not impossible) to prepare yourself for a loved one passing away. The idea of someone you love and care about so much not being in your life anymore is very difficult to comprehend.

Death makes us think about our own mortality....As my 24th birthday approaches, I find myself attempting to try new things, telling myself to smile more often, step outside my comfort zone more often, accept people for who they are and enjoy all the little things life throws at me.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is surround yourself by things and people you love.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Ben,
I am really sorry to hear about your grandfather. Thank you for the inspiring words and I am sending you lots of hugs through space. I'll see you soon.

Best,

Summer