Monday, December 31, 2007
So i bike to work most days, and for the past month or so it has been dark out by the time i leave. Also, for the past month or so the roads have been a good combination of icy, sludgy, wet, etc. I have two lights and wear a helmet, so don't go pointing fingers. I'm a pretty safe biker, I go fast and run red-lights, but I'm terrified of every car, moving and parked, so that keeps me in check.
So now that that's established, here are some of my thoughts (ranks?). First of all, talking on cell phones while driving should not just be illegal (it is in Illinois) but also be enforced (it is not, ever). People who are on their cell phones are by far the scariest, the ones who turn right from the left lane all of a sudden w/o a signal and don't even notice you almost flying off your screeching bike trying to stop in time. also, the ones most likely to open their door right after they park right into the bike lane. taxi are pretty bad too, but i'm pretty sure they notice and just don't care. also, honking is so annoying, and on a bike there is no way to reciprocate (maybe i should bike with an airhorn). cities plow the streets, but not the pot-hole strewn shoulder, so i have to bike at the edge of the lane which pisses every car behind me off. ok, and here is a weird one. when cars get near the entrance ramp to the highway, it is like when you open the dog food bag and the dog gets all excited, so much so that it is hard to push the dog out of the way to get the scoop into the bowl. i cross an expressway entrance on the way to and from work everyday and it is by far the worst part of my ride. 50% of cars making left turns onto the highway will go if i'm the only one coming, as if to say, "i see you, but i also know you have to break, so suck it up".
enough ranking. biking is great because a) i get to work faster b)i don't have to worry about parking, c) rush hour/traffic d) one way streets E) gas prices f) insurance or breaking down, etc. g) it it exercise and i'm wide awake when i get there and h) no emissions, sucka. also i) freedom!
for those who don't bike, but live in an environment where it is a viable method of transportation, you should think about it/try it. it is very liberating. no buses/trains/parking. just think about it.
happy new year l'kulam!
It's time to say goodbye to two thousand and seven and what better place to do it than on a public blog! This year has been fun! Delicious! Delightful! I still feel like there is so much left to figure out as I move through the beginnings of figuring out my existence. Becoming a part of Moishe House these past few months has pushed me to do things and go out to find things that I would otherwise have skipped or overlooked and for that I am so grateful! I also started a new job during these past few months that has been extremely tiresome and frustrating but I have definitely learned from it and I continue to go forth and work hard and to be honest, Moishe House has kept me focused and has forced me to go out and have fun even on the hardest nights after the longest day of work. I hope that next year I will find more ways to live my life happy and satisfied and I will continue to work hard and push myself towards a life that I am proud of.
Sunday, December 30, 2007
Coming into the month I had no doubts that our events would be fun, since we have fun just living together, but I was worried about planning so many events and getting people to come. It averages out to one event every three or four days, and to have any variety that requires a lot of ideas.
The task of bringing the community together seemed daunting, and it does take some time and effort. Fortunately our house works well together, and everyone's willing to help out to make sure the place is always presentable and welcoming, and to spread the word about our events. For this it helps that we're already so active in the community and know a lot of Jewish people our age. (Lior, Elkana, Yonatan, and Zev are Shlichim at Yavne, one of the Jewish day schools here. I work at Hillel Uruguay.) All of our event promotion has been through word of mouth, which seemed to work just fine. Between the five of us inviting people, and the guests who wound up bringing more of their friends, getting a lot of people to come over turned out not to be as hard as I thought.
My other main concern, hosting a sizeable amount of events, also somehow seemed to resolve itself. Some of the events, like the Israeli sleepover and Sunday Night Futbol, were pretty spur-of-the-moment. I actually believe that more and more of our events will be that way as we develop as a Moishe House. People will wind up coming more and more often just to hang out, and as a group we'll do what we feel like doing when we feel like doing. It think we will have accomplished a lot once our community starts gathering itself together automatically like this.
Aside from our Moishe House helping bring the community together, our events have also helped me personally to meet more people, which is great, something that I really enjoy. And I feel that the five of us residents have grown closer through working on a shared project together too. My Moishe experiences have all been very positive so far, and I'm looking forward to having many more.
Moishe House Montevideo
It's at times like these you look for extra stores of will and resource. I feel now, looking back, like I got through that pre-solstice dip on pure energy, resilience, faith and creativity. As the long term at college finally reached its end I turned my attention more firmly towards 'Yeshivah of the Absurd', the theatre project I've been working on, first for performance in the house to an audience small enough for the space and then taking it up to Limmud Conference in Warwick for a Christmas Day show to who knows how many. In the end it was a tremendous success. We created a kind of interactive fantasy Jewish learning playground (if you thought such a thing were possible), with a healthy dose of misanthropy and darkness. I think from the photos below (taken from shemspeed.com) you'll get an idea of the kind of spectacle and stir we caused. 150 people turned up and to us performers it felt like a shot of adrenaline.
Saturday, December 29, 2007
On another note, we went to Bethlehem for Christmas day and saw the beautiful city and all the tourists from all over the world. We made a video that you can check out here...
- Tamir, Tel Aviv
Friday, December 28, 2007
December was a light month for us, what with finals, work ending early in the month and people traveling here and there, but we had a great time just the same. There were lots of Hannukah celebrations in the community, and we did our part with a great Latke dinner (thanks for the recipe, dad!). We had an intimate crowd for a lovely, catered Shabbat dinner in the middle of the month that was a great break from the rush that is December. And, of course, the day before I left for Milwaukee, we had an awesome Wet Hot party...the movie was hilarious and the people were lots of fun!!
Even though I'm leaving my family tomorrow, I'm looking forward to the new year and some great times with my MH family. Happy New Year everyone! Can't wait to see you next month!
Thursday, December 27, 2007
This month, Moishe House Minsk took a little field trip...
After everyone handed in their signed permissions slips and participated in a loud count-off, we made our way over to one of the most popular places in Minsk, ICE PALACE. Natasha and I were happy to have Moishe House sponsor this post-shabbat, chill-out activity. It proved to be an interesting experiment in trust building and group cohesion!
After a frenzy of fastening rental skates and making sure we still had each member of our group, we hit the ice. Literally, for a some of us. But when our Talmudic sages of blessed memory first uttered the famous quotation "All Jews are responsible for one another," or
Самым моим любимым событием этого месяца было веселое празднование Хануки (Musical Chanukah Celebration).
Ханука - праздник свечей, которые зажигают в честь чуда, происшедшего при освящении Храма после победы войска Иегуды Маккавея над войсками царя Антиоха в 164 году до нашей эры. А чудо, согласно преданию, когда Иегуда Маккавей и его воины очистили Храм, они не смогли найти чистое масло, которое годилось бы для того, чтобы зажечь менору и освятить Храм. После продолжительных поисков все же был найден один небольшой кувшинчик с чистым маслом, но он был так мал, что его могло хватить только на один день горения меноры. НО, произошло чудо: масла хватило ровно на восемь дней. В память об этом чуде праздник Хануки с тех пор отмечается в течение восьми дней.
И до сих пор многие из нас ждут с нетерпением этот праздник. Потому что именно в Хануку без зазрения совести можно наесться вдоволь драников (латкес), которые мы в Мoishe House готовили самостоятельно; а также покушать пончики, приготовленные Эрикой - волонтером JDC; получить Ханука-гелт; зажечь свечи в ханукие и конечно же спеть гимн Хануки - Маоз Цур.
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
I remain in a semi delusional state
dreaming above the winds of convention
neither subjugated nor in control
Born of a music dance
an instrument never known
Heading the impulse of rushing tides
drifting on a rock of infinite silence
Surveying diamond caverns just beyond my eye
Moonlight expeditions to rescue that golden word,
infinitely cast through refracted mirrors of glassy fire.
Saturday, December 22, 2007
were lots of new faces. We have had people join our email list-serve,
because they heard about us from friends or the local synagogue…but a
lot of those people who have been added to the list had not been
coming to the events. But then…they came to the Hannukah party. So, it
was great seeing so many new faces. We met lots of fun people who live
just around the corner from us. While Shama spent most of the party
frying up latkes (thanks Shama!), I talked with people and tried to
get a feel for what types of events they wanted us to do. There seemed
to be a split - half the people wanted us to organize big trips like
ski trips, backpacking trips, etc…and the other half just want more
low-key events like dinner and drinks. So, we will try to have more
"dinner & drink events", and also plan some trips to Tahoe or
On another note, this month is wedding month. 3 weddings within 3
weeks! Our friends Phil & Sonya got married last night. It was a lot
of fun! I will be going to the next 2 solo, because Shama is off to
Israel. Anyone want to be my date?
-MH SAC (Jen)
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Sunday, December 9, 2007
This past month has been very busy and stressfull because it is the end of the quater at school. Plus I've started a torah study group as a Moise house event.
I've also been running the craft circle by myself since Tamar is out of town.
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
Amazingly it is that time of the month to check in again. It doesn't seem like that much time has passed. The month of November has on the whole been a pretty good one. Our Shabbloween at the beginning of the month was a huge success and was a lot of fun. We also had our first joint events with Jews United For Justice, and a Havdala event with a local synogague. These joint events went well and hopefully
will lead to future joint ventures. Personally, November was a busy month and it's a little bit of a
relief to have finished. Now we just have to look forward to finishing up 2007 in style. With our list
of upcoming events, that shouldn't pose too big of a problem. So until next time, have a happy
This past month has yet again been busy!! I think our little Moishe-nik team is getting along better. Love is in the air and we are still a few months away from St. Valentine's day. Moishe month highlight for me was finally meeting Brady in person, and then seeing my roommate dress up for the Rocky Horror picture show. Yes, Alan in fish nets and tight pants ... who would have thought!
Personally -- ONE MORE WEEK OF CLASS then I have semester break to RELAX!
Happy Hanuka to Moishe-niks everywhere!
Love and light!
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
2 cans of garbanzo beans
1 bulb of roasted garlic (must be roasted to mellow out the flavor!!)
1 tablespoon olive oil
3-4 tablespoons tahini (a good tahini can be hard to find....shop around)
1/6-1/8 cup lemon juice
1 teaspoon paprika
1/4 cup water reserved from the garbanzo beans
1 teaspoon plain yogurt (to get the right texture)
pinch of salt
pinch of cayenne pepper
Blend all of these ingredients in a food processor until creamy and you're done!!! But constantly taste the hummus to make sure it tastes right. The main key to making a good hummus is to keep tasting it to adjust the amount of ingredients until it's perfect.
I also have been strenuously planning Hebrew lessons for the house this month. How come the good tutors cost so much sometimes? Grrrrrrr..........anyways, I think I found someone to teach for us and book for us to follow so I'll write about the lessons in my next blog. Have a happy Hanukah everyone!!!!!
Monday, December 3, 2007
Thursday night we held our 1st open mike event, it was a winner, I was up til 3 cos folk didn't wanna sleep.
Then we had the sweetest shabbat this side of Sfat in London - our mates round the corner hosted a lurvely service n meal for about 50 peeps on friday night, then we followd up with an uber-chilled lunch on saturday.
Food was nice, mattreses/bean bags in abundance, singing was from the heart.
I like this house.
If I didn't already live here, I'd be pretty keen to.
Ah, well. =D
1. November was awesome! I really like our interfaith understanding initiative. Although not of the same magnitude of Boston's Muslim-Jewish project, I am really excited for it & hope to see it continue to grow.
Our first interfaith learning event went really well, and I can't wait for our next one (in a couple weeks).
(For all who may possibly be alarmed or concerned: our disclaimer is always something along the lines of,
I am absolutely adamant about this!
These are all personal friends of ours who come from or celebrate different faiths or cultures that we want to learn more about; and these people want to gain a greater understanding of what it means to be Jewish.)
2. Our Havdala party (& after-party ;) -- we need to have more of those!) at Ohev Sholom - The National Synagogue was fantastic (though, honestly, the Mikva wall clock in one of their study rooms kinda creeped me out), and our movie night with Jews United for Justice officially kicked off what I hope is a growing & deepening collaborative relationship between a concentration of social action-oriented folks & the Silver Spring Moishe House. AND, Brady was here(!) for the movie night. A few of us went to the American Visionary Art Museum in Baltimore Sunday afternoon before the movie extravaganza. It's a crazy place. http://www.avam.org/ -- check out the website, and you'll begin to understand.
Good times, good times.
3. December! December events, Hanukkah, a party for the secular New Year: December should be amazing. Football + crafting for charity, Sacred Evening for Rosh Chodesh Tevet (can it top October-Cheshvan natural healing with Julie or November-Kislev with the erins band [who is / are AMAZING & my new favorite musical experience!]?!?!), movie & chat with Brit Tzedek, Shabbat services & dinner with Taglit Birthright Alumni, informal learning & shmoozing with Rav T (as I like to refer to him) of Mesorah DC, our next interfaith event, and perhaps a couple unofficial trips to the Piratz bar nearby or to the Palace of Wonders to see some fire & other circus sideshow-esque performances (getting there in time to actually SEE the show) -- yes, yes: December should be amazing.
And then there's planning for January!: maybe a joint event with the Montgomery County Gesher City cluster, our January interfaith event, & thinking ahead to March for our proposed outdoor fire performance at the house, just for fun & in honor of my birthday. . . . And of COURSE in January is our conference weekend in California, to which I am really looking forward! (Proper grammar sounds so odd.) If only the worldly, non-U.S.A. MHs would be there as well....
More good times, and laughs, and hopefully not too much cold (but some snow would be great):
I miss Nature's Classroom, & I love the Moishe House. =D
As for the football + crafting for charity: great people, fairly good turnout (DESPITE the first sleetfall of the season! -- all you Californians don't know what you're missin'!) -- but, funny thing, the group came & went -- some leaving early, others arriving late -- over the course of a few hours... & our photos reflect that. :) Still, a great event. Now if only we can get everyone to be here simultaneously!
No-pressure, no-skill-needed Hope Buddies gave the non-craft-oriented attendees a low-key first venture into the world of arts & crafts (possibly for the first time since elementary school art class or arts & crafts at summer camp way back in the day): simple, fun, & out of it comes something for a child for whom a hope-giving friend might be just what they need.
I don't want to end this, but my writing has got to conclude at some point. :) So: Till next time!
I'm pleased to say my voice is returning today - back to the huskiness of the weekend, but I'll take greater care not to overdo it this time. This morning I went to the Time Out offices in central London for a photo-shoot. They want me to feature in an article about fashionable people of faith i.e. religious types with an interesting look! The photographer told me he had a rockabilly Christian coming in after me, followed by a young Sikh couple. All quite fun really.
All said and done, this last week has really topped off November for me. 40 people for our performance evening, including my dad coming by to read his poetry. Lovely gatherings in The House on Shabbat with a lot of people staying over. These rooms filled with light and warmth and joy. It's our Chanukah party on Wednesday and we're expecting a big one...
I think I'm officially the "pseudo-cultural outing" dude here at MHSS. In November I led two field trips.. one up to Laurel for "redneck karaoke", and one to College Park for the ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW.
Unfortunately we didn't get as big a crowd as we expected for karaoke, because apparently people are busy on Tuesday evenings. See now, I would never let a little thing like paralegal classes or visitting a sick relative keep me and my off-key warbling away from a microphone, but it takes all kinds, you know? :) Rest assured, our friends and fans, we will pick a better day next time to trek up Whiskey Bottom Rd. for a night of beer, Beastie Boys, and Clint Black. Or Cher, Shania, shooters, and Tool! Or Kingsmen Trio, jack & coke, New Found Glory, and Kanye! The possibilities are endless.
The Rocky was amazing, as usual. Have I mentioned I worked tech for the College Park cast for four years? There's nothing better than walking onto campus dressed like a goth pirate tramp, with a woman wearing nothing but a slip on one arm and a cross between a French Maid and an electrocution victim on the other, and settling in to watch one of the worst B-movies be shown while shouting raunchy heckles and jokes at the proud freaks who lip-sync and act out the entire thing in front of the movie screen.
When Brady (Hi Brady!) came to visit us, we took him up to the Visionary Arts Museum in Baltimore - an amazing place to go if you ever get the opportunity. Plus, Baltimore has delicious kosher chinese food. And that night we were joined at home by Jews United For Justice, a local activist network, for pizza (felafel as a topping???), a movie about domestic workers in southern California, and a discussion on local issues in the District & Montgomery County that effect the same (mostly-immigrant) labor group. It was our first explicitly socially-conscious event and I definitely felt proud to begin a hopefully-long-and-fruitful journey of hosting groups like JUFJ at MHSS.
We also had a havdala party at a local synagogue and our first interfaith learning meeting (this time, with Mormons! Next time, Wiccans!), but I'll let my fellow Moisheketeers tell y'all about those. HAPPY CHANUKA!!
Sunday, December 2, 2007
Time is flying fast... and so are the flurries! November was a packed month for us here... we had many events going on that were all quite diverse in nature. Our Shabbat services with the Ethiopian congregation on the south side of Chicago was so different and interesting for us. It's amazing how music can truly transform worship and lift it into greater heights, as well as bring everyone together in one voice, one rhythm. Maybe it's the music lover in me, maybe it's the human part of me, whatever it is I found the service to be quite uplifting. Perhaps if we all sing a little more, clap our hands, and listen more to the music around us we will all experience a little more spiritual exhuberance, or perhaps something just as simple as a better day.
As the winter solstice approaches, and night creeps up on us earlier and earlier, I'm happy to find myself in my little Moishe House cocoon in Chicago...
At at time when lists are being compiled around the country of top 10 gifts books, top 10 best films of the year, etc, I want to make a top list for my Moishe House SF teammates.
TOP 3 MOISHE HOUSE SF THINGS
1. Dave Persyko, my comrade of 1.5 years, drinks milk by the gallon and God bless his growing boy's heart, it charms me.
2. Joie Mazor, my friend from youth, dances in our kitchen and is educating us all about the joys of body work.
3. Ari Baruth, boy wonder, is just about the most normal-seeming but actually strangely funny person I know.
This is my holiday top 3 list! Go out and buy yerself a MHSF teammate for the Xmas stocking of your loved one today!
First I just want to say how moved I am that there is a Moishe House in Minsk. My grandpa MOISHE (not kidding, that was his name) was from there, and as the legend goes, at age eight he and his sisters escaped in wheel barrows covered in hay. Somehow Grandpa Moishe and my great aunts made their way to a boat to America, where they met their dad and big bro who had come 6 years before. A bunch of the family stayed in Minsk, and though a few made aliya to Israel, most of them didn't make it, and died in various pogroms and anti-semetic persecution.
So to read that there is now Jews are building a vibrant community in Minsk - what a blessing! Though my biological family may not have survived there, it is awesome to know that the larger Moishe House family extends to the land of my roots. I hope to get to visit someday.
As Moishe House Minsk represents some sort of tikkun, or healing, for my family's Jewish experience of Minsk, here in New England, Moishe House Boston is creating a tikkun between the Jewish and Muslim communities. For a variety of complicated reasons I won't go into, Jewish Muslim relations in Boston have gone way downhill in the past few years. It has gotten to a point where many institutional Jewish leaders seem to equate the ethnically, racially, and ideologically diverse community of Muslims of Boston with Alcaida terrorists and suicide bombers.
Not surprisingly, this atmosphere makes it hard to create any kind of positive relationship, or live by the Biblical commandment - "Love the stranger, for you yourselves were stangers." For members of the Moishe House Boston community, who remember our own families' experience of intolerance and anti-semitism a few generations back, we felt we couldn't stand by while the Muslim community was treated with disrespect and even contempt.
So we started holding dialogues and joint community service projects, and even joined together to show interfaith support for a workers' rights campaign. On Friday night, we welcomed young leaders of the Muslim community into our home for Shabbat. We weren't sure how it would go over, but 75 or 80 people showed up, either to build relationships and share Shabbat with our Muslim friends. During dinner, we had a discussion where people asked each other questions about our respective Sabbath and religious practices. It was inspiring to see people just talking to each other, building relationships, becoming friends, and to see how excited our planning team was that the event was a success.
Having the Muslims to dinner is just one small step towards repairing Jewish Muslim relations in Boston, but hopefully we are serving as a model for our parents' generation and the institutional Jewish community to do the same. If vibrant Jewish life can return to Minsk, surely Jewish Muslim good will can return to Boston. I just hope it won't take as long!
Saturday, December 1, 2007
When Summer Shapiro visited us at Moishe House Seattle this past month, she told me one thing we should take special care to avoid is burn-out. It's possible to have too much of even such a good thing as Moishe House! This concern was well-placed. Setting up this house and all of the programs we're doing here together was a rush and a joy, but it coincided with a crazy time at my work and left me exhausted. So for the last month or so, whenever someone me asks how I am, I've been saying, "I'm ready for my vacation."
Finally last week someone asked me back, "so are you actually going to take a vacation?" The sad punchline is that, no, I was going to chill out for a week in Boulder this month but it fell through, and now I'm actually not going on any kind of vacation. I'm just ready for one should it happen to take me by surprise.
Tamar, on the other hand, has hit the jackpot. She starts nursing school in January and just wrapped up her job last week -- which leaves the entire month of December to (what else?) hang out in Israel and India! I'm not jealous, exactly. In fact, just to show how not jealous I am, I offered to take her passport and visa application to Kinko's to FedEx them to the Indian consulate in San Francisco. And so I did. So I thought.
Tamar was nervous that several days after the application had been received in San Francisco there was still no sign of it being in process. It turns out the office that processes these things is badly understaffed, so it took me an hour of dialing and redialing and being put on hold for 30 minutes and dialing and dialing and redialing again, just to get through to someone there who could finally tell me the reason why Tamar's visa application wasn't in process: no passport!
The panic wasn't too bad. The bag I had taken the application to Kinko's in was right there with me, and it didn't take long to find Tamar's passport, hiding under some papers, having fallen out of the application envelope while I took it to be sent. I signed out of work immediately and ran to the nearest FedEx. This was the day before Thanksgiving.
Every business day since then, I have struggled my way though the consulate phone system in order to harass a very nice woman named Teresa, who took it upon herself to get Tamar's visa application rammed through the consulate's process in time for her to leave the country on the date of her ticket, December 2. That's tomorrow. Every day the situation had incrementally evolved somehow, with the possibility that the passport could be FedExed back that evening. Monday. Tuesday. Wednesday. Thursday. Friday afternoon, I'm baking challah for our Shabbat guests soon to come, and I call Teresa one last time, hanging on to faint hopes for a miracle. It's the same story as before: there is a batch of passports coming from the consulate today, Tamar's passport should be in it, if it is Teresa will make sure it is in FedEx's hands in time for next-day delivery. And that's it. Shabbat comes, we have a lovely time, our Russian friends sing us Russian songs into the night, we sleep and try not to think about how expensive it will be to change Tamar's ticket come Saturday night.
Normally on a Saturday morning I like to go with Tamar to this tiny synagogue full of the sweetest people my grandparents' age. But with the Russians last night and a crowd of folks from the "Floating Minyan" coming by in the afternoon, I just needed to sleep in and relax with a book and be alone, so I stayed home. (Remember how I'm ready for that vacation?) But there was one visitor to the house I truly hadn't expected. Eliyahu, dressed as a FedEx deliveryman, came to our door this morning, exactly 24 hours before Tamar needs to leave. And he had her passport.
To emphasize the magic of this Shabbat miracle, when I picked up the envelope, and shook it to be sure that her passport really as in there, it began to snow. I felt enchanted sitting in my comfy chair, reading my book, waiting for my guests, watching the snow fall. Perhaps I can say I even felt calm and at peace. I'm still ready for my vacation, though.
Today I went to a minyan gathering at a local shul for mincha. While we were having a pre-davening lunch, the first snow of the season started to fall! Several adults went out to marvel at it and kids ran around in it sticking out their tongues to catch flakes. The snow continued to fall during the service, and it was a truly beautiful and inspiring experience. The group walked to our house through the falling snow. When we got back home, we sat talking in the living room and got to stare out at it, from our warm indoors. Sheets of white covering everything.
Just as I'm confused with what the Stansford Tree has to do with anything, some people come to Moishe House wondering what our activities have to do with Judaism. Last night we had a Shabbat dinner with about 35 guests, many of whom have never attended a Moishe House event before. A couple guests asked me if we were going to do anything more "Jewish" besides the 5 minutes of traditional Shabbat prayers. The thought to do more Jewish "stuff" didn't occur to me because I thought the idea of 35 people hanging out and sharing a Shabbat dinner was about as Jewish as it gets. There were many people meeting others for the first time, sharing some amazing food, and plenty of wine. But hearing questions about whether we were going to do anything more "Jewish" made me wonder if what Moishe House's goals were set in the right direction. After 3 weeks of living in Moishe House SF, and after this first major event, I have absolutely decided that Moishe House's goals are perfect and in line with my view of the most efficient use of the Forest Foundation's resources. Jewish people represent one of America's smallest minorities, and Jewish culture often falls into the America's social melting pot. Moishe House allows for Jewish culture to sustain itself in every community where a Moishe House community exists, and I'm happy to be a part of it.
Last night we welcomed into our home almost three dozen Moishe House community members for a "November to Remeber" Shabbat. Although we have held numerous Shabbat events here in San Francisco over the past couple of years, many of which I have enjoyed thoroughly, this is the first time that we have done a community wide event since we invited Ari Baruth and Joie Mazor to join the Moishe House fold a month ago.
Besides having Joie and Ari take part in hosting the activities, many of their close friends, past and present, came out to enjoy pleasant conversation, laughter, and the wonderful food brought by our very generous guests. Despite the fact that we have a community of hundreds, it was so nice to welcome in an infusion of new personalities. In addition to the new perspectives and energy that Ari and Joie have carried into Moishe House, it was such a pleasure to step outside of the comfort of the community we have built and incorporate the newbie guests. Learning names, histories, developing relationships, blending seemingly polarized gorups, expanding our universe. It's what makes transitional periods like this one so much fun.
Watching Ari and Joie go from the new Moishe House residents, planning, assisting and learning, to leading with confidence at one of our signature events was an amazing experience. Being able to assist our new roommates in making our Moishe House feel like their HOME was not only an incredible pleasure but a distinct honor.
Friday, November 30, 2007
No, but seriously, this is an issue that came up during a meeting in our house this month and became a much larger issue than i think any of us anticipated. and it's tricky. none of us in the house are extremely kosher; some vegetarian, some don't eat pork or seafood, some totally unrestrained, but we also recognize that our house is also the center for the community we are building, and that, at minimum, during events we have to be respectful of our guests. At the same time, it is our house, we shouldn't be ashamed of the decisions we make or pretend to live a different life than we do. so the issue sort of comes down to the classic secular/pluralist debate. do we cater to the most observant person who enters our house (which, realistically we can't do--not with our dishes and pots at least), or is that one or two people forcing all the rest to change prepare and eat food in way we don't normally do, know how to do, or want to do. Obviously the answer is somewhere in between: make guest feel welcome without making our own lives so difficult we don't feel like hosting anymore. but then there is the question of where to draw the line. is serving a vegetarian option enough, or should we also make sure not to cook a dairy/veggie dish in the same oven as a meat dish, or just not serve the two together? and what about kosher meat? eventually we decided that for now we will just have vegetarian shabbats and leave the in between events as case-by-case. this is easy enough, and we don't even eat too much meat, but what if someone brings a meat dish to a potluck? i have no idea, maybe meat eaters just have to hide in my room and eat the whole thing under my bed.
This issue is interesting because it is relevant for the Jewish community at large. at one point it is likely that all jews were kosher, and had similar if not identical interpretations of what these meant. so then you could go to each other's houses, it was easy. no problem. now some people, some jews, they don't do that kashrut no more, and almost no two do it quite the same. so this is interesting because the decision is bigger than any family's own home, it is about how they are then going to be able to interact with their community. the opposite motivation acts on the K observant jew who has to decide whether or not to relax his/her rules in order to be a guest somewhere. i grew up not kosher in a town without a whole lot of jews, and much less kosher ones, so for me this is interesting. I'm sure this is old news to many...
also, did you know that wrought used to be the correct past particle for work (and "worked" didn't exist) and now it is only remembered because of wrought iron? i heard that scientist burying radioactivity with 50,000 year half-lives struggle with what to write on the container, becuase 50,000 years from now "danger" or "don't touch" etc probably won't mean everything because of the natural evolution of language. so they put a picture of spikes on it. if you had a box of spikes in your basement, would you open it? i probably would, but i guess if i had a box with some weird letters or symbols on it, i would probably open it sooner. just a thought.
good night and shabbat shalom.
Thursday, November 29, 2007
But later in the month, we took on a bigger challenge: trying to convince Barry Shrage, head of the CJP and a major mover-and-shaker in not only Boston's Jewish community but the Federation movement nationally, to support our interfaith work with Boston's Muslim community. Not to go into the gritty details, suffice it to say that our interfaith work is in direct opposition to The David Project, a conservative Jewish group with a lot more power in town than us. The bottom line is that they think our friends in the Muslim American Society are preaching hate and preparing to kill us, while we think they're pretty nice folks worth having over for Shabbat.
So anyway, Joe and Margie and me, along with a bunch of other community members, met with Barry the other day. He was very nice, but definitely noncommittal about our request to get on board with our efforts publicly. Nonetheless, it says something about what we've built here at the house that he was willing to meet with us at all, and we definitely felt that the meeting was a success in that we are at the very least helping to build a political pole diametrically opposite from what The David Project is pushing. And Barry said he'd come to one of our interfaith events...although he definitely said that cautiously. Going forward we shall see what happens, I suppose, but regardless we're gonna keep pushing for dialogue and relationship-building rather than demonizing and fear!
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
On a less somber note, a shout out: Thanks for visiting us Brady! We had a blast. Can't wait to see you and the rest of team Moishe USA in Jan!
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Хотелось бы поделиться с Вами своими впечатлениями о проделанной «работе» с одной стороны и «прекрасным временем препровождения» с другой.
Самым, на мой взгляд, суперским событием в Доме Мойше был Rosh Chodesh Kislev (начало месяца Кислев). Собравшиеся за накрытым столом 8 прекрасных девушек очень замечательно провели время за женскими разговорчиками на разные темы. Нами были затронуты такие вопросы как: какой я вижу настоящую еврейскую женщину? Что бы я хотела изменить в себе, чтобы быть лучше. Все это происходило в очень уютной атмосфере при свечах.
Могу сказать, что было ЗДОРОВО не только от своего имени, но и от имени всех девушек, которые в будущем будут собираться на каждый Rosh Chodesh.
Кстати, следующее наше женское собрание в сауне ☺ Мы все ждем этого с большим нетерпением.
И в завершение, хочу, чтобы все порадовались за нас. Следующее мероприятие Дома Мойше – катание на коньках в Ледовом Дворце (Ice Skating at Ice Palace). Уже сейчас я знаю, что это будет очень весело и смешно, потому что практически все из нашей компании не умеют кататься на коньках ☺. Но, тем не менее, я думаю, у нас все получится!
Целую всех! ☺
Friday, November 23, 2007
Brr...It's Cold in Here! It must be Rosh Chodesh Kislev in the Atmosphere!
Well, friends, winter has definitely arrived here in Minsk. The cold hard truth (pun intended) really hit me when my wet bathing suit, inside my gym bag, froze (!!!) on the 10 minute walk home from the local pool.
Seriously. It's cold.
*Click HERE to read about starting your very own Rosh Chodesh group!
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Its been intense guys.
I have been in London, Vienna, and Jerusalem all in the past 10 days. I just got back to Vienna last night, My parents are coming to Vienna on Saturday, will stay a week, then I am off to France for a weekend, then back to Vienna, then to New York, then back to Vienna, then to London, then home to Tucson... all in the next month.
What is going down>? you may ask>?
I am organizing a crazy international Heebish throwdown festival/conference Shabbaton. The event has wings, and I am now being flown across the world by wealthy donors to structure and develop funding for the project. INTENSITY!!!
For all Ya'll digital grazing pleasures, here is the mission statement of ChillaJewropa.
DAJUS TORAH is excited to announce the first annual ChillaJewropa2008: Gathering the Tribes of Israel. This unique occasion promises to be the most extraordinary Jewish event of the year, as we literally intend to ‘gather’ thousands of young Jews from more than a dozen countries with the express purpose of facilitating dynamic interaction between fellow Jews. We intend on accomplishing this mission through crafting a creative, comfortable, and wholly conducive space for European Jews to celebrate, congregate, and holistically culminate their diverse Jewish backgrounds into a blissful and enlightening global Jewish experience. The event will manifest itself in three distinct forms: an interactive conference, a Shabbaton, and a music/arts/cultural festival. Festivities will include world-renowned Jewish reggae musician Matisyahu (among others), distinguished Jewish artists, world-class speakers, as well as a host of other entertaining and informative activities. It is our hope that through providing an insightful, empowering, and all out awesome Jewish experience, ChillaJewropa will serve as a catalyst in elevating the Jewish consciousness of our attendees. Additionally, we will seek to harmonize our actions with the global consensus on planetary responsibility though employing sustainable practices wherever possible, utilizing renewable energy, purchasing reusable/biodegradable dishware, and implementing ‘Zero-Waste’ principles in our production model. Far more than a one-time event, the ChillaJewropa experience is primarily a symbolic representation of a larger social transformation we wish to bring to world Jewry. ChillaJewropa will take place in an undetermined rural retreat/lodge setting within continental Europe in late June 2008.
Email me (firstname.lastname@example.org) for more info, Ill send you the festival outline, and hopefully I can glean all your suggestions, questions, ideas, criticism, desert dwelling tortoises, and the rest.
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Hai. Hello thanx for coming. This month has been crazy!!!!!! Summer came to visit that was dope. Caren went to Israel, and I went to Pennsylvania! I am so happy to have had such a great Thanksgiving. This year, I didn't really feel that this dinner was in any way deep or meaningful the way I think it is supposed to be, but I did really appreciate the time to hang out with people I don't see often and take some time outside of the midwest. All the events we've had so far in November have been really great. We had a really nice Shabbat where the group of people who came over brought delicious food and even helped to clean! We've been able to see art, eat, listen to music and attended an entirely interesting religious service in the city. Coming up we still have a chill night of poker and a volunteer experience to look forward to. I think we've really started to get the hang of planning our months out and coming up with new and interesting ideas and for that I am so happy. I can't wait to meet everyone from the other houses so that we can all talk about all the things that have worked and program ideas that are really fun and cool! yeew!
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Never, ever, ever, eat there, unless you desire to enter another world - a world where you do not have the control you may be accustomed to over your bodily fucntions.
This world also comes with cut-price delirium, hot and cold flushes and a temperature of 110 degrees.
On the up-side, whilst languishing in my hospital bed and being told all kinds of rubbish by my various tormentors (who were cunningly disguised as medical professionals), I conversed with various heavenly entities who channeled their divine light into my weakened body.
The upshot of these inter-dimensional communications was that I awakened from my feverous wrestlings on Saturday morning with a gentle certainty that I should set a date for my transition to the Holy Land.
So, I did - and it's not for at least 18 months, but it feels great to have a framework for all my other decisions...
In the mean time, I arrived back home on Tuesday night to the warmest Moishe-welcome in London history, and was have since enjoyed a a couple of lovely gatherings in the homestead.
And tonight, we're gonna go party as a house-crew for the 1st time.
Rock, rock on.
Red Curry Classic
First you go to the chicken guy in between meat street and the Shuk Ha Carmel. Tell him you want enough chicken for as many people as you anticipate coming to dinner. Also tell him you want the fat trimmed off and it chopped into cubes. This should be of no extra charge.
Say Todah and take your bag of chicken over to the veggies guy. Your gonna want 1 big eggplant, 2 red bell peppers, two yellow onions, one spicy pepper, some small white-cap mushrooms, and some lemmon-grass if he has it. Wait for the clerk to stop arguing with the guy in front of you, and proceed to pay. This shouldn’t cost you more than 7 shekels.
Now you head over to the dairy guy who also sells hummus. Hummus has nothing to do with this meal, but is always delcious and reliable, and always seems to make its way in somewhere.
Directly to the left of the dairy guy there should be a cart selling the most important ingredients of the meal: Ask for one can of red curry paste, and 2 cans of potent coconut milk….on second thought make that extra potent coconut milk.
Finally head to the baker and ask for some lafa, (a big flat and floppy Indian style bread)
Head home, throw everything in a pot. And you got yourself some some good ol’ Red Curry Classic. Bete avon!
-Tamir Moishe house Tel Aviv.
While the usual event here consists of Shabbat dinners and casual slumber parties, we are planning a Lone Soldier thanksgiving, consisting of a football game in the park(ing lot), or the “Turkey Bowl” as we are starting to call it here, and hopefully some Pilgrim, costumes and a turkey outfit. Because most soldiers wont be able to get here until Friday, we are going to fuse Shabbat dinner with Thanksgiving and have the first ever “Shabbiving”
On another note if the lone soldier who “borrowed” my running shoes and didn’t return them is reading this blog, please feel free to drop the shoes off any time.
PS check out our videos, we got a good one about a British lone soldier shaving his head before returning to England.
-signing out, Dave from Moishe House Tel Aviv
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
This is getting really excited with houses sprouting up across this globe. Our house is coming together. We are getting into a groove of keeping things organized and in order. The events are flowing and we are learning what works and what does not work. Always room to grow and growing we are.
Personally... I am moving through this Yoga training, and loving every twits and bend. School is still kicking my butt, and my internship counseling is getting more busy. Silver Spring is getting chilly and darker! Oh I am ready for the Light of Hannukah!
Peace you all!
Monday, November 12, 2007
Just had my first true phanfare / Mintranet experience -- how thrilling! I am now one of the Mintranet elite, I suppose.
November has been good to us so far, though I continue to wonder how we can grow & have yet to produce a viable solution.
. . .
Making Hope Buddies was fun, and was possibly the most intellectual camp craft experience ever: Discussions about literature, strategy games, & other subculturous hobbies introduced me to worlds of creative cerebral pursuits I had never known to exist.
Word of the day: ___-punk
(Clearly, I don't remember it all that well. I had never heard of this apparently well-known term used to denote all things neo-Victorian / Victorian in the Computer Age. I hadn't known there *were* things of this kind that necessitated a term to bind & unite them into one category. It seeems the intricate antique typewriter case mod is included in this department. You never know what you are going to learn.....)
Our Interfaith event with Mormons was excellent, I think! We got to explain a lot about who & what we are. I love situations in which I can help shed light on what Judaism is and what it means to be Jewish / a Jew -- if only from one perspective [my own], however limited. (I always make a point to let people know that there is WAY more content out there & that they should look for other reputable sources of information besides / in addition to myself.) I also learned about a few aspects of Mormonism that I just had no clue about previously. Building bridges & creating common places of understanding, searching for similarities & appreciating & learning from differences is so important to the happy survival of individuals & nations & this world, I think. I look forward to another meeting in which we can explore more in-depth and possibly tackle some of the more touchy subjects pertaining to our faiths.
Our most persistent challenge is establishing & maintaining a solid, strong, committed community -- that is, people who not only say they're going to attend an event (though we could use more of those as well), but actually show up. Zvi & I have brainstormed a bit on this one. We're all at a loss. Any ideas???
Looking forward to the rest of the November events, & to what we have in store for December. Especially looking fwd to those of our events in conjunction w/ other groups -- most especially our next Interfaith nights.
Thursday, November 8, 2007
I hear lots of people talk about tikkun olam, but then I look at what the Jewish community is doing and I wonder, are we really making a difference? So, I put it out to you moishenicks, how can we build a movement for social change?
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
So this last month has been a real kicker. We've been busy like crazy donw here in our little slice of Moishe house pie.
We've now officially moved in and gotten into a healthy swing of things- Yes, the shopping schedules are up, the house dinners are being cooked and the vibrant centre of CT (our house) is thriving. Yes...life is back on track.
I'd like to Focus My blog on one event we ran recently that really stuck out for me as being something soooo positive Moishe house is doing. One of our friends has been organising weekly visits into the townships (squatter camps) and underpriveledged areas. The housemates have been main supporters of these visits and we've pretty much been essential to it's development.
So back to the event right? right. We invited 30 something of the kids to come to our house for a ceremonial end of year party! we had a Braai (BBQ) and the kids loved it. We swam, ate nice food and spoke a little about the past year and what we've achieved.
That's it from me hombres.
Other than that our new house is amazing, swimming poool, you name it! keeping it clean is the talk of the house but we will do it...one day. People have been coming over to relax and recline - my favourite new house guest being this guy who places stand up double bass at university and he played here the yesterday, was so soothing and soft (while I was studying Maths), was amazing.
Decmeber we have some very cool stuff planned. A reform (*gasp*) Zionist movement is coming to run some activities with us in December at the House and should be really cool, as for some December time our house will be empty due to camping obligations (ahhhhhh)
Otherwise....what can I say.Mbeki has recently confirmed that he still is an AIDS denialists and only went hush hush because of cabinet and political pressure.
wish everyone well from the other moishe houses.
One dude showed up as Iceman from Top Gun, only to find that 3 dudes he didn't know were Mavrick, Goose and Hollywood.
Bruce and Cory as Kermit and Miss Piggy.
John Poulos was the most believable Charlie Chaplin I've ever seen.
Dave Eagle as the Grim Reaper character from Guitar Hero II. He even made the scythe guitar.
Baby Cael as Babe Ruth.
Monday, November 5, 2007
I'm gonna talk about Shabblooween. How outrageous! Shabbat dinner with costumes, the friday night after Halloween! I'm sorry you all couldn't be there, because we don't have photographs during Holy-Sabbath-time, but there was Heidi the alpine girl, a fancy woman from India, an Israeli EMT, a man with a shrunken head, and more, all sharing food and song in our Moishetastic living room. We got to know some of the good kids from the local AVODAH (Jewish service corps) group, and we even successfully pulled off the first meaty Shabbat dinner at MHSS (with pot roast and delicious brisket) -- while still stuffing the vegetarians with non-murderlicious delicacies like Tomato-pesto Pastry rolls!
And the best part? I was dressed as Tom Cruise from that famous scene in "Risky Business", sliding across the floor in front of a dinner crowd of 20 (including 10 newbies) -- pantsless.
Sunday, November 4, 2007
So a few nights ago we had a bash here at the L.A. Moishe House that just blew up......Halloween!!! I know its the not the most Jewish of holidays but we had to throw a party considering West Hollywood is the craziest place to enjoy Halloween in Southern California. We were expecting having some friends over and of course friends of friends, but we didn't realize what kind of chain that can form. Some of the best costumes of the night were a group of guys who just happened to all dress like Top Gun characters, a Myspace profile, and Kermit/MissPiggy. Our pictures are up on Phanfare so please have a gander.
On another note, myself and some of our regulars are noticing how little conversational Hebrew we can speak. So in an attempt to change this we are planning on hosting some Hebrew classes in our house with a group. We are planning a 2-3 times a month sort of class. I know the D.C. house had classes in their house before so I hope we can pull of the same success that they had. BTW it's great to see so many new houses popping up all over....including the London House. If I am in town I am definitely crashing with you guys!!!!!!
Have a great month to all!!!